Not too long ago, slave owners had a terrible problem -- and that problem was runaways.
The solution was to chop off the end of one of the slave's feet, which pretty much guaranteed he wasn't going to run ever again.
Problem solved. And it was legal, perfectly legal.
Their plantation. Their slave. Their choice.
But the problem wasn't the runaway slave, the problem was with society, with slavery. Stopping the slave from running just meant that we didn't, as a society, have to instead deal with what caused the slave to run. And what caused the slave to run is simple humanity, but then I forgot, slaves were just animals, a sub-human race -- or at least that was the story that kept everyone comfortable with what was being done in the name of progress.
And today we face a similar situation. We have a terrible problem, and that problem is unwanted babies.
The solution is to cut off their lives, which pretty much guarantees that they aren't going to be an inconvenience anymore.
Problem solved. And it is legal, perfectly legal.
Their body. Their baby. Their choice.
Again, the relative enslavement of one type of person by another type of person.
But the problem isn't the baby. The problem is, again, society. Eliminating the babies means we do not have to deal, as a society, with the reasons that often drive a woman to the place where she is willing to perform an act that is distinctly male, the elimination of life.
And we have been diverted, so shamefully diverted. Instead of making remedy to the injustices a pregnant, unmarried woman faces, we instead picket and pour all of our energy into Roe vs Wade.
Well Roe vs Wade isn't the problem.
One of the problems is that feminism has been hijacked by women who are now pushing for equality ON MEN'S TERMS.
Feminism began hundreds of years ago upon the premise of non-violence, that all are equal, and that the lives of women and children must be improved. It began with women like Susan B Anthony and Abigail Adams, who believed that a woman had a right to be equal AND STILL BE A WOMAN.
But we have a problem -- in order to be equal we have abdicated those things which are, by nature, feminine. Compassion, love, non-violence. We are the life-givers, but we have, to our shame, become the life-takers. We do it in order to get ahead, to avoid poverty, to avoid societal stigmas, to be unburdened. We do it because we are scared, or threatened, or just because we no longer see abortion as the violent antithesis of our very nature.
We see our femininity as weak, but there is nothing on earth more powerful than bringing forth life, except for the power of love -- in which women naturally excel.
Women are better than abortion. We deserve better than abortion.
We need to have injustices dealt with, NOW.
It is wrong for a man to father a child and then walk scott-free. Let's deal with that.
It is wrong for a woman to have to drop out of college because she does not have support while the male co-ed that got her pregnant continues with his education. Let's deal with that.
It is wrong that a woman has to choose between success and the life of her child. Let's deal with that.
IT IS WRONG THAT WE MUST BECOME MORE MALE IN ORDER TO REALIZE EQUALITY.
I want equality on my terms, AS A WOMAN.
If I am forced to become that which I am not, then I am not equal at all, but a pathetic construct. And I am angry at the women who have sold me a bill of goods in the name of violent feminism. Because violent feminism is a betrayal of everything that separates us from being male.
Put down your picket signs, all of you, and let's deal with the reasons for abortion, not the laws. Laws do not work. The last eight years prove that beyond any shadow of a doubt.
Not all choices are equal. Choices that say some people are valuable and some are not are a slap in the face of the women who were beaten and jailed and sometimes even killed in order that we would have the right to even raise our voices.
Let's address the problem, and stop the mutilation.
LET US BE WOMEN AND WE WILL BE VICTORIOUS AS WOMEN.
But if we fight as males do, we will simply repeat the sins of the past in hopes of gaining those privileges that historically been male -- thus admitting that women are indeed unworthy.
WE NEED A REVOLUTION, ON OUR TERMS.
Fight as women, fight as mothers. Fight as the givers, instead of takers of life. Hold the moral high ground and do not budge. Demand better, demand love, demand compassion, demand equality. On our terms and in our way. But our terms MUST recognise that all are in need of equality, regardless of age, color, disability, income, or gender. Because anything else is hypocrisy. Women are better than hypocrisy. We have seen it, endured it, and now perpetrate it, but enough is enough. We cannot say that equality begins and ends with us, but we must insist on it for all human beings. We have to change the way we look at ourselves and others.
Or is it just easier to hold up a picket sign?
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Monday, December 1, 2008
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6 comments:
Well thought out. Well said. Thank you...
There's another form of slavery you touched on... that of women enslaved to the idea of feminism as it has been preached in the last 30 years.
Well, I guess, in the end, it must just be easier to hold up a picket sign.
I suppose it may be as cowardly as the bank robbers that wear the masks.
I like your thoughts.
I had an abortion when I was 19, and now I have 2 beautiful children. Sometimes it hurts to look at them and realize that I really have another child. In heaven. I have a very good friend who had several horrible miscarriages, and a very close family member who will never have children of her own...and I feel like it's just so unfair. I am unfair!
The reason I had an abortion was because I knew my family would disown me, shame me, and I would have to quit college, or marry a man I did not love and knew was not right...completely selfish. I had no idea what I was doing, I was just always taught to make sure that on the outside everything looks right, and so I did. The church I grew up in actually had the preacher's daughter stand up in front of the whole church and apologize for her sin and admit her guild and shame for becoming pregnant before she was married. Wow.
So...I do think you hit the nail on the head.
I was also a little more than disturbed by the gift certificates being issued by Planned Parenthood this year.
Anyway, this was good...very true.
kari
Oh sweetie, I am so sorry you went through that/are going through that!
I am a member of a proactive pro-woman organization that says, "Abortion is proof that we have failed women miserably!" It is called feminists for life and there is a link on my sidebar, you might find some of the stories there helpful.
I know a young woman, well no longer so young, that was also forced by her pastor father to do that very same thing (do you live in idaho by any chance?). If she had silently aborted, they would have believed her virtuous, but she chose life and they all looked down their noses at her.
Christians live by an evil double standard, "Choose life, but do so and face our disapproval!" I am so sorry that this attitude failed you so miserably. You may have made that choice, but countless people helped you make it. Wish I could hug you.
Our birthmother would also have aborted, but praise god that she had a loving supportive family that embraced her and a church that did the same, but most young women do NOT have that situation.
I am so sorry. More than I can express. Thank you so much for sharing your heart here hon. And you are not unfair. You made a wrong choice, should you be punished forever in every way? I am a barren woman who has had eight miscarriages, and i don't think that your two beautiful blessings are unfair or poorly placed. Abba knew what He was doing :)
Writing against abortion politically correct? Well, that's a new one on me lol
Sorry you didn't like it but that is what He gave me to work with that day
I don't have a theme for this blog, other than sharing what I believe he is telling me. But hey, nice to see you :)
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